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Edward Zaydelman's avatar

This letter blew me away! It highlights our current societal issues, like external validation, material wealth pursuit, and addiction, and paints a vivid picture for the reader. It offers a critical view of our consumption-driven culture and the vast waste it generates, stressing where our focus should shift – towards fulfilling fundamental needs of love, belonging, and true connection. This is indeed the next chapter for humanity. I sincerely hope that these letters illuminate the path forward for future generations, making the invisible visible and guiding them through the complexities of life. 

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Eda Ozmen's avatar

Ronit, your words are a powerful and timely reminder that the essence of life isn’t about “controlling” time, but about being fully present in the now. The way you trace the evolution from survival to love and belonging—and how we’ve collectively lost our way—is unsettling and fascinating. It’s like you’re holding up a mirror to the parts of me/us we’re too afraid to face or say out loud. Thank you for bringing your wisdom to light.

What struck me most is how our need for connection is vital for our survival, and as unmet as ever. It’s sobering to realize that we’re all just a “series of nows”, grasping at some illusion of control, while life slips by moment by moment.

Your question, "Are you even aware that the need to control it—and even worse, control the future—in fact controls you?" hit hard. It makes me wonder what if the very thing I’m trying to control is what’s keeping me from truly feeling alive? I need to sit with this some more, but it feels profound.

I’m curious and would love to hear how others navigate the tension between surrender and the urge to hold on. And what might open up if we allowed ourselves to let go of striving and simply be with what is?

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